evyandhunter's Cancer Blog
April 24, 2008
| Evy's Infection and Some Thoughts from Hunter | Views: 285 |
I know the mystery infection has been tough on Evy. I am certainly trying to keep her spirits up, but I know it’s not easy for her to remain in a positive spirit through all of this. She is obviously uncomfortable and very sick through a lot of this. I’m sure the chemo doesn’t help that either. I am confident that they will be able to fight off the infection, but it’s just a big and nasty trial and error at this point. It must be really frustrating to her that it is taking them so long to figure it out because I know it really is to me. I’m just going to continue to try to keep her spirits up because I know it will go away eventually. Thanks to everyone here for your support of her too. I know she appreciates it.
On a side note, I think our relationship continues to grow stronger. It definitely isn’t easy at times because she is serious discomfort, and we are both under some major stress. However, I keep noticing little indicators that we are moving in the right direction. I think she is trusting me more and more, which is just an awesome thing for me to experience. Evy is a tough cookie, and she doesn’t open up easily at all. She has shared some pretty big things with me over the last couple days that really let me know that she is letting me into her wonderful mind. It’s a great thing! I’m going to continue to try to pick at that brain and become even closer to her than she thinks possible. I really think that will help us both through this ordeal and any others that may arise. I love her very much, and I’m stoked that she is lowering her defenses a bit.
I miss her very much today. We haven’t been in contact since very early this morning. I know she isn’t feeling well from reading her blog here, so I’m trying not to be too needy. I just really want to talk to her again. I’m sure I’ll get to again tonight, but I can be selfish, right? :)
Hunter




06.22.08 -
I say “Go for what you know!”
You sound like a true champion, believing in your love and that really is all that that matters.
Kudos to you brother…keep ya faith and hang on cousin, cuz it’s a tough and zainy ride.
I have hope that you have a good support network so you can lean on some shoulders and get hearty hugs. If not, keep letting us know what’s going on with y0u!
I’m impressed with your openness and admire your positive mental attitude (PMA!-Peep the Bad Brains for summa dat D.C. rasta-hardcore mang!)
One Glove!
Timmy D!
Thinking about today and send some hugs you way.